Dhokha: Kabhi kisi ko dard na den

Kabhi kisi ka dil dukhana nhi chaiye kyu ki yeh ek aisa kam hai jo samne wala vyakti ko bahut jyada peeda pahuchati hai. Kisi ka bhi dil dukhane insaniyat ke khilaf hai, insan ko apne jazbat ke sath dusre ka bhi jazbat samajna chahiye aur dusre logo ke bhi dard ko mehsoos karna chahiye.

Kisi ko bhi dard dena bahut hi aasan hai lekin uska parinam bahut hi bura rehta hai aur wah dard ek insan ko takleef nhi deta balki uske pure pariwar ko us dukh ka samna karna padta hai.

Jab hum kisi ko dard ya dukh pahunchate hai tab hame ustime us dukh ka pata nhi chalta hai balki kuch samay baad hame us vyakti ki mayushi samaj me aati hai ki humne bahut hi bura kiya hain.

Yahaan par kuch jaruri bate hai jo apko samjhate hai ki apne jeevan me kabhi kisi ko dukh nhi pahuchana chahiye

1. Khud ko bhi takleef hoti hain: Jab hum kabhi apne dosto ya parivar ka bharosa todte hai to kuch samay bad hame bhi bahut bura lagta hai ki hame apne mummy, papa ke sath aisa nhi karna chahiye tha, bahut logo ko pehle takleef nhi hoti lekin samay ke anusar dheere dheere hamari galti hame samaj me aata hain. Isliye hame kabhi aisa nhi karna chahiye jisse hamare parivar wale kabhi naraj hoke.
2. Bharosa Tutna: jab kisi vyakti ka apke upar se bharosa uth jata hai to wah apko kabhi dekhna nhi chahega apke pas se hamesha ke liye wah dur Jana chahega, Bharosa kisi bhi riste ke liye bahut hi jaruri hota hai chahe pyar ka ho ya apne khud ka rista family se agar ek bar uth jata hai to hamesha ke liye uth jata hai.
3. Dhokhe ke parinaam: Dhokha dena bahut hi aasan hai lekin usko prachur karna bahut hi muskil, jab aap ek bar kisi ko dhokha de denge to zindagi bhar wah apke upar bharosa nhi kar payega chahe aap jitna bhi uske samne prachit kyu na karle, Jan bhuj ke kabhi bhi kisi ko dhokha nhi dena chaiye kyu ki Geeta me kaha gaya hai ki aaj jaisa karenge apko uska fal jarur milega.
4. Imandari ke faide: agar aap Imandar hai to upar wala apko koi kami nhi hone dega aur agar aap sabke paise liye huwe lauta dete hai to aapka sambandh majboot hoga aur apki muskil me sabhi log apki madat karenge yehi hoti hai imandar logi ki pehchan, agar aap kabhi muskil me honge to kaise bhi ghadi rahe aap ke sabhi dost, rishtedar apki madat pakka karenge, aur aapke jeevan mein sakaratmak parivartan aate hain.
5. Imandari ki aehmiyat: Imandari aaj ke jamane me bahut jaruri hai agar aap kisi ki sath kabhi bura nhi karenge kisi ke paise leke wapas nhi denge to future me aao kitne bhi emergency me usey paise mangenge wah nek dega. usliye hamehsa imandar bane rahiye aur kisi ka bhi dil kabhi mat dukhaiye. Yeh ek aisa gun hai jo risto ko majbot banata hai, kyu ki vishwas par duniye tike hain aur samne wali party izzat bhi karti hai agar apka acha vyavhar rahega toh.
6. Dhokhe : Dhokha kabhi kisi ka na de kyu ki aaj ke jamane me agar kabhi kisi ke upar se bharosa uth jata hai to phir wah bharosa nhi kar pata, kabhi kisi ko apne faide ke liye kisi ka dil na dukhaye na kabhi tode bahut galat kam hai kyu ki agar aag kisi ke sath bura karenge to future me apke sath bhi koi na koi galat jarur karega usko hi karma kehte hai , aaj ke duniya me bharosa bahut badi chez hai isliye kabhi kisi ke bharose ko tutne na de.

7. Dhokhe se bachne : Dhokhe se bachne ke liye jaldi kisi par bharosa na kare kyu ki aaj ke jamane aadhe log apka bas use karenge app se apna kam likal wayenge kabhi kabhi paise mangene phir emergency time me apka call nhi uthayenge. isliye aise dost banaye jo apke muskil samay me apka sath de aur kabhi apka use na kare hamesha sacha dost banaye, apne karyon ko sahi tareeke se kare kisi ke kehne par na kare kyu ki wah log apka sirf kam bigadenge kabhi banayenge nhi, aur apne riston mein imandari ko banaye rakhna chahiye.

Conclusion:

Kisi ko dhokha nahi dena chahiye bahut hi galat bat hai kyunki trust ek baar jab toot jaaye toh usko wapas banana me bahut hi mushkil hota hai. Jab aap kisi ko ek bar dhokha dete ho, toh sirf us insaan ka dil nahi toota, balki aap apni izzat bhi gawah dete ho. Dhokha dena sirf saamne wale ko hurt nahi karta, balki aakhir mein khud ko bhi guilt ya regret me daal deta hai.

Relationship me bhi bharosa bahut hi jaruri hota hai aur chahe wo dosti ho ya pyaar, trust pe koi bhi rishta chalta hai isliye kabhi dhoka na de hamesha bharosa jeete ek dusre ka. Agar trust nahi raha toh wah pyar, dosti, ristedari kisi bhi kam ki nhi reh jati hain.